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Social & Cultural

The unwritten rules

Tea, bargaining, dress codes, photography, time, cash, staring, and the social codes visitors encounter.

11 observations

  1. 01Is it rude to refuse tea?Tea is a social contract.Offering it means you're being received as a guest. Accepting means you recognise the relationship. It creates a shared pause — business may follow, or it may not.
  2. 02What should I wear?Shoulders and knees covered.
  3. 03Can I photograph people?Ask first.
  4. 04Can you show affection in public?Hand-holding, yes. Kissing, no — for everyone, married or not.
  5. 05Is Morocco safe for LGBTQ+ visitors?Visitors come in numbers and incidents are rare — but same-sex acts are illegal, so discretion is the operating rule.
  6. 06Should you remove shoes?In homes, riad living areas, and mosques — yes. The row of shoes at the door is the sign.
  7. 07Why does time work differently here?Two systems running at once.
  8. 08Why does everyone want cash?Card acceptance is patchy.
  9. 09How does bargaining work?Expected in souks, not everywhere.
  10. 10Why does everyone ask where I'm from?Conversational opener, not interrogation.
  11. 11Why do people stare?Curiosity, not hostility.